More Than One-Third of Americans Sometimes Sleep in Another Room To Accommodate a Partner

Some 35% of Americans say they occasionally or consistently sleep in another room to accommodate their partner, according to a survey by the American Academy of Sleep Medicine (AASM).

Men are more likely to say they moved out of the room: 24% occasionally and 21% consistently compared with 15% and 10%, respectively, for women, detailed results show.

There were notable differences by generation as well. Millennials were by far the most likely to report sleeping in another room on occasion or consistently (43%) followed by Gen X (33%), Gen Z (28%), Baby Boomers (22%) and the Silent Generation (19%). There was less variation among regions except for the West, which at 42% was eight percentage points higher than anywhere else.

“We know that poor sleep can worsen your mood, and those who are sleep deprived are more likely to argue with their partners,” Seema Khosla, M.D., medical director of the North Dakota Center for Sleep in Fargo and an AASM spokesperson, said in an academy press release. “Getting a good night’s sleep is important for both health and happiness, so it’s no surprise that some couples choose to sleep apart for their overall well-being.”

She added an exception: If loud snoring by either a man or a woman is leading a partner to take sleep-protective measures, the snorer should be encouraged to talk with a doctor about the possibility of obstructive sleep apnea.

AASM commissioned the online survey of 2,005 adults by Atomik Research, an independent market research agency. It was conducted March 24 to 29 and has an overall margin of error of plus or minus 2 percentage points.

While 20% of respondents said that they slept in another room occasionally and 15% consistently, there were plenty of other accommodations: earlier or later than desired bedtimes (33%), eye masks (18%), use of a silent alarm (16%) and earplugs (15%). Ear plugs and eye masks were particularly popular in the West. About 42% said they did none of the above.

Other sections of the survey covered a variety of topics. It asked whether respondents had lost sleep due to environmental worries (68% said yes, including 32% who said always or often, more in younger age groups) or pets (33% said always or often), had trouble staying asleep (53% said always or often), trouble falling asleep (54% always or often) and wake up feeling well-rested (24% said rarely or never, with women almost twice as likely to say that, 31% vs. 17%).

The survey also asked about chemical sleep aids, which 75% of respondents said they used occasionally or regularly. Specifically: melatonin (29%), marijuana (25%), over-the-counter sleep medicines such as Tylenol PM and ZzzQuil (22%), herbal supplements or teas (20%), alcohol (19%), prescription sleeping pills (19%), other prescription medications, such as for depression or anxiety (17%), over-the-counter medications labeled for colds, allergies and other purposes other than sleep (16%), CBD/cannabidiol (15%), and other (2%).